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Valentine’s Day should be about connection. However, every February also becomes the busiest season of the year for romance scammers. In 2026, that risk is higher than ever.
These scams are no longer simple “lonely hearts” schemes. Instead, modern romance fraud relies on artificial intelligence, data brokers and stolen personal profiles. Rather than sending random messages and hoping for a response, scammers carefully pre-select victims using detailed personal data. From there, they use AI to impersonate real people, create convincing conversations and build trust at scale.
As a result, if you are divorced, widowed, or returning to online dating after the holidays, this is often the exact moment scammers target you.
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Romance scams surge around Valentine’s Day as criminals use artificial intelligence and stolen data to target widowed, divorced and older adults returning to online dating. (OMAR KARIM/Middle East Images/AFP via Getty Images)
The new face of romance scams in 2026
Romance scams are no longer slow, one-on-one cons. They’re now high-tech operations designed to target hundreds of people at once. Here’s what’s changed:
1) AI-generated personas that look and sound real
In the past, fake profiles used stolen photos and broken English. Today, scammers use AI-generated faces, voices and videos that don’t belong to any real person, making them almost impossible to reverse-search.
You may be interacting with a profile that:
- Has years of realistic-looking social media posts
- Shares daily photos that match the story they tell
- Sends customized voice notes that sound natural
- Appears on “video calls” using AI face-mapping software.
Some scam networks even create entire fake families and friend groups online, so the person appears to have a real life, real friends and real history. To the victim, it feels like a genuine connection because the “person” behaves like one in every way.
2) Automated relationship scripts that adapt to you
Behind the scenes, many scammers now use software platforms that manage dozens of conversations at once. This is known as “scamware” and is incredibly hard to flag.
These systems:
- Track your replies
- Flag emotional triggers (grief, loneliness, fear, trust)
- Suggest responses based on your mood and history.
When you mention that you are widowed, the tone quickly becomes more comforting. Meanwhile, if you say you are financially stable, the story shifts toward so-called “business opportunities.” And if you hesitate, the system responds by introducing urgency or guilt. It feels personal, but in reality, you’re being guided through a pre-written emotional funnel designed to lead to one outcome: money.
3) Crypto and “investment romance” scams
One of the fastest-growing versions of romance fraud now blends love and money. A BBC World Service investigation recently revealed that many romance scams are now run by organized criminal networks across Southeast Asia, using what insiders call the “pig butchering” model, where victims are slowly “fattened up” with trust before being financially destroyed.
These operations use call-center style setups, data broker profiles, scripted conversations and AI tools to target thousands of people at once. This is not accidental fraud. It’s an industry.
And the reason you were selected is simple: your personal data made you easy to find, easy to profile and easy to target.
After weeks of trust-building, the scammer introduces:
- A “private” crypto platform
- A fake trading app
- A business or investment opportunity, “they use themselves.”
They may show fake dashboards, fake profits and even let you “withdraw” small amounts at first to build trust. But once larger sums are sent, the site disappears, and so does the person. There is no investment. There is no account. And there is no way to recover the funds.
AI DEEPFAKE ROMANCE SCAM STEALS WOMAN’S HOME AND LIFE SAVINGS
Data brokers selling personal details fuel a new wave of romance fraud by helping scammers pre-select financially stable, older victims before contact is made. (Jens Büttner/picture alliance via Getty Images)
How scammers find you before you ever match
The biggest misconception is that romance scams begin on dating apps. They don’t. They begin long before that, inside massive databases run by data brokers. These companies collect and sell profiles that include:
- Your age and marital status
- Whether you’re widowed or divorced
- Your home address history
- Your phone number and email
- Your family members and relatives
- Your income range and retirement status.
Scammers buy this data to build shortlists of ideal victims.
The data brokers behind romance scams
They filter for:
- Age 55+
- Widowed or divorced
- Living alone
- Financially stable
- Not active on social media.
That’s how they know who to target-before the first message is ever sent.
Why are widowed and retired adults targeted first?
Scammers aren’t cruel by accident. They target people who are statistically more likely to respond. If you’ve lost a spouse, moved recently, or re-entered the dating world, your personal data often shows that. That makes you a priority target. And once your name lands on a scammer’s list, it can be sold again and again. That’s why many victims say: “I blocked them, but new ones keep showing up.” It’s not a coincidence. It’s data recycling.
How the scam usually unfolds
Most romance scams follow the same pattern:
- Friendly introduction: A warm message. No pressure. Often references something personal about you.
- Fast emotional bonding: They mirror your values, your experiences, even your grief.
- Distance and excuses: They can’t meet. There’s always a reason: military deployment, overseas job, business travel.
- A sudden “crisis”: Medical bills, business losses, frozen accounts, investment opportunities.
- Money requests: Wire transfers, gift cards, crypto, or “temporary help.”
By the time money is involved, the emotional connection is already strong. Many victims send thousands before realizing it’s a scam.
The Valentine’s Day cleanup that stops scams at the source
If you want fewer scam messages this year, you need to remove your personal information from the places scammers buy it. That’s where a data removal service comes in. While no service can guarantee the complete removal of your data from the internet, a data removal service is really a smart choice. They aren’t cheap, and neither is your privacy. These services do all the work for you by actively monitoring and systematically erasing your personal information from hundreds of websites. It’s what gives me peace of mind and has proven to be the most effective way to erase your personal data from the internet. By limiting the information available, you reduce the risk of scammers cross-referencing data from breaches with information they might find on the dark web, making it harder for them to target you.
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Practical steps to protect yourself this February
Here’s what you can do right now:
- Never send money to someone you haven’t met in person
- Be skeptical of fast emotional bonding
- Verify profiles with reverse image searches
- Don’t share personal details early
- Remove your data from broker sites.
- Use strong antivirus software to block malicious links and fake login pages. Get my picks for the best 2026 antivirus protection winners for your Windows, Mac, Android and iOS devices at Cyberguy.com.
When you combine these steps, you remove the access, urgency and leverage scammers rely on.
SUPER BOWL SCAMS SURGE IN FEBRUARY AND TARGET YOUR DATA
Cybercriminals now deploy AI-generated faces, voices and scripted conversations to impersonate real people and build trust at scale in modern romance scams. (Martin Bertrand / Hans Lucas / AFP via Getty Images)
Kurt’s key takeaways
Romance scams are no longer random. They are targeted, data-driven and emotionally engineered. This Valentine’s Day, the best gift you can give yourself is privacy. By removing your personal data from broker databases, you make it harder for scammers to find you, profile you and exploit your trust. And that’s how you protect not just your heart, but your identity, your savings and your peace of mind.
Have you or someone you love been contacted by a Valentine’s Day romance scam that felt real or unsettling? Let us know your thoughts by writing to us at Cyberguy.com.
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