When we talk about parenting, we think of it as a one way street, where parents are always trying to inculcate the right values and culture in their child. As primary caregivers, most parents are responsible for how their kids turn out in life, hence they try their best to bring them up in the best possible way. However, if we turn the tables, we will realise that even parents too, can learn a lot from their children. Here are five valuable things children can teach their parents and make them a better individual.
Curiosity and wonder
Children are naturally curious about the world. They ask endless questions about everything—from why the sky is blue to how plants grow. This is a normal part of childhood, and this curiosity helps them learn and discover new things every day. Parents too can learn from this by constantly evolving, and being child-like, at least once in a while. Learning as an experience should never stop, and instead of rushing through life on autopilot, parents can slow down and explore the world with fresh eyes. Being curious also helps parents stay open-minded and better understand their children’s needs and feelings, and where they are coming from.
Living in the present
Kids live life in the present. When they play, laugh, or explore, they are fully focused on what they are doing at that point of time, without a care in the world. They don’t worry about the past or stress about the future. However, this is one ability most adults struggle with, as they get too caught up with everyday rigmarole.Parents can learn to appreciate the here and now by watching their children. Whether it’s enjoying being happy and content with what they have, or thanking God for their current life, being present helps reduce stress and build stronger bonds. Practicing mindfulness, like children do naturally, can improve parents’ mental health and happiness. While it is okay to plan for the future, one should stop worrying about it constantly.
Honesty and the power of expression
Children are usually very honest about their feelings. They cry when they are sad, laugh when they are happy, and say exactly what they think. This openness is refreshing and important for emotional health.Parents can learn to be more honest with themselves and their loved ones. Expressing emotions openly helps build trust and deeper relationships. It also teaches children that all feelings are okay and can be shared safely. Remember, just like children, you don’t have to be strong all the time, and it is okay to not be okay.
Resilience
Young children often falter when learning new skills, like riding a bike or tying shoelaces for the first time. Even learning to walk for a toddler is a Herculean task! But they rarely give up. They get back up, try again, and keep practicing until they succeed. This resilience is a powerful lesson in persistence, something that adults can take a few lessons from.Parents can learn to face challenges with the same spirit. Life is never smooth, and setbacks are normal, but giving up should not be an option. By learning the power of resilience, parents can handle stress better and teach their children the value of hard work and determination.
Finding joy in simple things
Children find happiness in the smallest things—a colorful leaf, a new bird in the garden, or a game with friends. They don’t always need expensive toys to enjoy themselves. This ability to find joy in simplicity is something adults often forget, as we get caught in the hustle bustle of life, often forgetting to stop and smell the coffee. (literally so!)Parents too, can find joy in the small things in life – such as a walk on the beach, a warm home cooked meal, or simply an icecream on a hot, summer day. Remember, you don’t have to wait for the big moments, learn to enjoy life in this very moment!
