Warning: This article addresses child sexual abuse that readers may find distressing
Marie and Dan say their daughter’s childhood stopped when she was just 12 years old.
“Her innocence was taken away,” Dan says.
Their child believed she was talking online to a 14-year-old boy from London. In fact, she was being preyed on by a predator who she sent nude photographs of herself.
A tearful Marie is haunted by the impact on her daughter.
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“You go through all those questions thinking, ‘I should have done more because I’m her mum, and I’m supposed to protect her’,” she says.
The couple describe how the offender told their daughter he knew where she lived, and threatened to harm her and her family if she failed to do as he asked.
“She was really fearful we were going to be hurt,” Marie says.
Dan adds: “Then, once that threat abated slightly, it was then, ‘well, I’m going to commit suicide if you don’t keep providing me with images’.”
Dan says his daughter’s ‘innocence was taken away’
Marie and Dan say their daughter’s childhood stopped when she was just 12 years old
Experts say there is a “notable gap” in what we know about how offenders are using online platforms to exploit children – and they want to address it.
Sky News has been given exclusive access to a world-first report surveying online perpetrators globally.
Researchers carried out an anonymous survey among perpetrators who have used known keyword terms to search for child sexual abuse material on the dark web.
More than 20,000 responses were received, with participants taking part voluntarily, in several different languages, and they did not receive payment.
Sky News was given exclusive access to a world-first report surveying online offenders globally
‘Way too easy to access child abuse material’
It found that most offenders (59%) who search for child sexual abuse material first saw it when they were children themselves – including some (13%) when they were 10 or younger.
The research by Protect Children, funded by Ofcom, also found around a quarter (24%) of offenders first encountered child sexual abuse material by accident, without searching for it.
One offender described it as being “way too easy” to access child abuse material. Another said: “It used to be nearly impossible, now it’s two clicks away, well, maybe three.”
Other perpetrators said “it’s all over the normal web”, “it’s almost everywhere”, and, while some sites had been taken down, “new sites pop up really fast”.
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According to the report, 10% of offenders said they viewed content involving infants and toddlers aged three or under; 29% reported viewing material involving children aged four to 10; half of offenders said they viewed content involving 11 to 14-year-olds; and 51% viewed material involving 15 to 17‑year‑olds.
Nearly a third (29%) admitted viewing violent sexual activity involving children, and almost a quarter (24%) said they view sexual content involving children and animals.
Those who took part in the survey were signposted to prevention resources, and more than 2,200 clicked through to a “ReDirection” programme.
More than 20,000 responses were received for the report
Almudena Lara, Ofcom’s online safety policy development director, said preventing abuse “requires a deep understanding of the motivations of perpetrators and the ways technology can be exploited to enable these crimes”.
“This research will help inform and strengthen the global effort to protect children online,” she added.
Call for government action
Marie and Dan, who are not using their real names to protect their daughter’s identity, want stronger action from the government, saying: “If they can fine a water company £20m…they should be doing £100m to a company that can permanently damage a child’s welfare.”
Jess Phillips, minister for safeguarding and violence against women and girls, said the government is taking “swift action” to protect children from online sexual abuse and exploitation online.
She added: “Soon, anyone who possesses, creates or shares tools for generating child sexual abuse material, publishes guidance on how legitimate technologies can be twisted to this purpose, or operates platforms that spread this filth will face tough prison sentences.”
